How Youporn.com, Red Tube, and Xporn can Help you create a fun, strong and deep relationship!
By Maneater
I'm a woman and I like to watch porn. Does that shock you? I'm probably one of the only women who will actually admit this in public.
Do you find this shocking?
Most people do, at least in public.
I mean, Women are such "delicate" creatures who simply aren't interested in sex...Yeah, right! I mean, come on, women need to get over the fact that they might not be as hot as the girls in the porn video and to realize that men think and fantasize about sex like a porn movie.
Men want sex to be like it is in a porn movie!
When you think about porn as a fantasy tool for your relationship I guarantee that porn will be more enjoyable to you as a woman.
Quit being up-tight ladies! It's time to come to the realization that sex is not only a great thing, but that it is an essential part of a great relationship.
You can have sex without a relationship but you can't have a great relationship without sex. - ManEater
Sex is so critical that and that whatever can make it better is worth your time and trouble! Yes, ladies, men want their sex like a porn movie, but you don’t have to look like a porn star. You can be sexy, confident, and freaky without a tight butt and abs and double D's knockers.
What’s the secret? CONFIDENCE!!
Yes, confidence, that thing some of you lack in the bedroom and in life. Oftentimes for women, the older we get the less confidence we have.
Now I don't lack confidence in my bedroom, or his bedroom, or etc...you understand. See once you've focused your man's mind on sex and he is ready for you to please him, trust me, the last thing on his mind is the cellulite on the back of your legs, or the breasts you hate now because you have had a couple of kids.
The only thing on his mind is the pleasure you're going to give him.
I'm serious! Men are simple, and when it comes to sex, they are even simpler. Now when you are in the mood ladies, seduce, seduce, seduce! This should be a daily ritual. That's right ladies, I said DAILY! Think of it this way, if you compliment your man on the simplest things, there’s that word again…simple, will he love you for it? Absolutely! It's part of the seduction process.
Get your man to want more sex now!
Here are some ideas you can use.
- Everyday come up behind your man, grab his butt and compliment it.
- Lay a big fat kiss on him and tell him how much you love the way his lips feel when they are kissing yours.
- When he walks through that door from work (or vice versa), don't ever start telling him about what a bad day you had or how bad the kids have been. Always ask him how his day went. Make him to feel like #1, ALWAYS!!
- Take pride in your appearance and don't dress like a slob. Always take the time to put on a little makeup and fix your hair a bit. Ladies, you always have enough time. Not having enough time to look a little better is a terrible excuse. Believe me, your man will love you more and notice you more when you look good. Every day I get up early to exercise and take a shower. I also shave everywhere I need to as well. Trust me, part of giving your man that "porn" effect is to keep the nether regions trimmed up. I then apply make up and do my hair, every day, and not just because I have to go to work, I also do this on the weekends as well. He likes this, he notices this, and he compliments me on this. I get up early, yes, but like I said before, there is no excuse for not finding the time to always look your best. You have to make the time.
But most and far most ladies I do this for me. When I make myself look better I make myself feel better, and feeling better about yourself makes you a much more confident woman. When your man has a confident woman who gives him everything he wants from a relationship, then he will not go looking for someone else. Trust me, I know.
So back to porn. I promise porn will work. Porn is not an evil thing, unless it involves small children or animals, but that goes without saying. The kind of porn I am talking about involves adults. As long as it involves a man and a woman, two women and a man, one woman and a man, two women, two men, group, etc. or whatever you are into.
There is a porn movie for whatever your fantasy you have. Everything from the simple seduction of Sally the Secretary to Foot Fetishes.
First, think about what turns you on and, of course, what turns your man on. Then go on the hunt together for that type of porn. This is the easy part. You don't need to go to your local sex shop down in the shitty part of town (although that can be a fun experience as well), you can find everything you need on the internet (Duh!). One of my favorite websites is adameve.com . Here you can search for what you are looking for in a DVD and also maybe buy a couple of other sexy things as well while you are at it.
Need a quick porn fix? You can get porn in spurts by going on youporn.com, redtube.com, or xporn.com. These sites have a little bit of everything, from the under a minute cum shot, to over 30 minutes of whatever you want to see. Just enter what you want to see in the search box and wammo bammo, there it is!
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And ladies, honestly, these websites are great for those moments you are in the mood and alone. Just type in your fantasy and let it play while you play. Nobody will know but you and the visuals are a wonderful thing that will enhance and increase the kabam of your orgasm! You can also use these websites when you and your lover are bored with the DVD's you own and want something new quickly.
Now I'm not saying you need to use porn every time you have sex. I am saying that there are times when it will heighten the mood and put a little more umph and unpredictability into that same ol', same ol'. Learn to use each other as fantasies as well. Talk about what you have always wanted to try and try it! If you have always wanted to act like a schoolgirl trying to seduce her teacher, do it! Slip on a little skirt, a low cut button down white shirt, some knee-highs with heels, and damn it ladies, put that hair in a pony tail or two!
Trust me, if your man sees you in this light and you play the whole thing down to a "T", (go for the Oscar ladies), he will always remember it and he will crave more of where that came from. So ladies, time to loosen up! Start being more "European" in your views when it comes to sex, cause the truth is, sex IS a huge part of a relationship, especially for the man. Wear that skin suit you call your body and accessorize it with some stiletto heals and some bright red lipstick. Walk in that room, climb on top of your man and say, "Come to Mama!" You will be pleasantly surprised.