Easy Seduction

How to master talking to a woman.

Okay time for you to become a conversation expert with women.  Now I know each of us is different when it comes to talking with people...some people are "Chatty Kathy's" who never shut up while others tend to be quieter.  Your level of talkativeness is not what I am referring to here.  I am talking about becoming comfortable talking to women in general.  Here is a test everyone needs to do, no matter how successful you consider yourself to be with women:

• Go out somewhere public where lots of unaccompanied women gather.  By unaccompanied I mean without a guy.  They can be with other women.  For the purpose of this exercise it doesn't matter whether or not they are married or single, they just need to be alone or in a group without men.  (Okay, you can approach a group with men if you want to, it really doesn't matter.)
  
• Pick a woman whom you normally wouldn't approach.  You know, someone who is way too beautiful for you and who looks imposing, the more out-of-your-league the better.  Now go up to her and ask a question.  Any question will do.  Just pick something that seems natural to the situation.  Ask her the question, maybe elborate for 20 - 30 seconds, then say "Thank you" and disengage.  Simply walk away at this point.

Do it and notice what happens.  Most likely nothing bad, devestating or evil.  I would hazard a guess that she probably just answered your question without biting your head off or making you feel like shit.

That is all it takes.  Once you do the exercise you are well on your way to becoming an expert at talking to women.  You have proven to yourself that you can do it so now we are going to start building on that initial success.  You need to make it a point to walk up to at least three women a day and start a conversation. That is your exercise -

Everyday for the next week you need to walk up to a minimum of three women a day and start talking to them.  You've heard of one a day vitamins, well this is the three-a-day success with women vitamin.  Trust me, it is more fun than the One-a-Day version.

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Why do this?  You need to become comfortable talking to women and carrying on a normal conversation with them.  For some reason many men are nervous around women.  The more beautiful the woman, the more nervous they become.  This is because they are not used to making small talk around women in a non-structured environment.  Take work for instance, you may be comfortable talking to a woman at work because the environment is structured...you have little chance of being rejected or laughed at because the conversation is part of the normal work environment.

Outside of work or school however the chance for rejection is much higher.  Because of this many men get nervous and simply avoid talking to women.  This can't be you. You need to become comfortable talking to all types of women in all types of environments.  Here are some phrases, questions and advice you can use to start your conversations:

One of my favorite magic phrase's to use is "Excuse me, can I get your opinion on something?"  You can use this always and everywhere.  When you find yourself in a situation where there is a woman you want to talk to simply turn to her and utter the magic phrase.  It is non-sexual and non-threatening and it will start a conversation.

Learn to become "Situationally Aware", which simply means you need to notice what is going on around you.  If you are in an airport and the plane is late you can turn to someone and ask them about the flight.  Similarly, if you are waiting in line outside a club and you overhear something, simply make a comment like, "I heard you talking about (blanK) and (insert your opinion or question).  I personally prefer questions because they get them talking, but the right statement can get the conversation going as well.

Remember to appear non-chalant and somewhat disinterested.  You need to appear to be merely making conversation.  Look for the (IOI's), or Indicators of Interest so you know when she is into you.  You can adapt your conversation as needed based on how she reacts, but the whole point of this exercise is to get used to talking to women.

Again, here are some conversation resources, tools and information you will find valuable...

Conversation King - A simple 7-day course that will teach you to become a conversational master. 

Flirting Formula - Learn how to flirt with women. Women love to flirt and flirting is a vital skill to master if you want unmatched success with women.

Dating and Attraction Secrets - This free 10 part course will teach you how to approach beautiful women without fear, how to get dates with them and how to get them into bed.

How to Talk to Women - Without Getting Rejected! This is an excellent guide to developing confidence and an alpha male lifestyle