Easy Seduction

How to approach women

Today I want to talk about what I consider one of the most important aspects of the seduction process.  Most men lie to themselves about this part of meeting women.

I have seen some of the biggest and baddest men literally stop themselves from having all the women they could handle.  Master this part however and you can have the social life you only dream about now.

Do you know what this part is?  Ready to hear about it?

It is the approach.  Think about it.

You’re in the bar and you see an attractive woman who you would love to meet.  Why don’t you go over there and start talking to her?  If you’re like most men you are waiting for the perfect situation.

You tell yourself that you can’t approach her or any woman of quality until:

You lose 15 pounds.

You are dressed nicer.

You’re earning more money

You have the perfect car.

You have a better, more prestigious job.

You figure out exactly what to say.

These are the excuses we tell ourselves that are keeping us from living our dreams and getting the exact social life we want.  It is a popular way of lying to ourselves.

We believe that we need to be more or do more before we can have what we want, before a woman will find us attractive and interesting.

Or maybe you feel you are not ready to meet the woman you secretly desire. Are you dating below your means because you don’t feel confident enough to approach and seduce women of higher quality?  Are you afraid to upgrade your social circle?

I want to tell you that these things you are telling yourself is a LIE.

And as long as you keep telling yourself these things you will never get what you want.  Time will keep flowing by and you will fail night after night to get what you really, truly want.

Everything you are telling yourself is an excuse to avoid taking a chance.  You are trying to avoid being rejected.

I want to show you a different way to think when it comes to women.  Instead of focusing on all the reasons you can’t approach women and all the things you need to accomplish before you can start living your dreams I want you to focus on meeting women.  Lots of them.

When you change your focus you change your actions and changing your actions changes your results.

You study a lot of different subjects in school.  Tings like physics, math, and science.  Some of you are pretty good students with good grades and all the praise that comes with being an acknowledged expert.

I am asking you to add another subject that will pay you benefits long after you leave school.  I want you to become a student of seduction.  Specifically, I want you to master the art of the approach.

It is easy, especially once you have the knowledge, the routines and the tools to do it right.

Never again will you sit there wondering what to say or do.  Never again will you make excuses that leave you alone at the end of the night.  When you master the art of approaching women you will be able to meet and enjoy beautiful women whenever and wherever you like.

You must read The Art of Approaching Women.

This book made me into an Approach Monster, unafraid of going up and talking to any woman.  My copy is worn, underlined and dog-eared…it is that good.

Whether you are just starting out or consider yourself a PUA this is an excellent read.  You will learn something.

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