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How to talk to a woman - Conversation secrets, tips and techniques

The first impression a woman has of you is usually non-verbal...the way you are dressed and the way you carry yourself.  The next chance you have to make an impression is on the approach.  What you say and how you act during the approach phase will set the stage for how she perceives you.  Yes, you can make mistakes here that will end up blowing you out of the set, but with a little experience most men do pretty well in the approach. (If you need any help in the approach phase you should pick up either The Art of Approaching Women  or Approach Women NOW!  These programs, if you follow them, will make you bullet proof when approaching women!)

So you've dressed to impress, or at least to project the image you desire, and you've successfully approached and introduced yourself to a woman.  Now what?  You need to be yourself and to be able to carry on a conversation that will cause her to be attracted to you and want to do more with you. 

So here are some tips about how to talk to a woman:

1. Speak clearly with good tonality and depth.
2. Make eye contact.  This is the most critical and important step.
3. Keep the conversation light and friendly.  Stay away from talking about the politics and religion and stuff like that.  Your Mom should have taught you this. It was good advice then and it is still good advice.
4. Have some stories to tell.  Stories are used for a wide variety of reasons, but you need to use stories to convey certain traits and covert messages to the woman as you talk to her.  You should figure out your stories in advance and you should rehearse them. Use stories that build attraction and that build up your value in their eyes.  Don't brag and don't make it all about you.  Stories are so important to building rapport and moving along the seduction process that you need to become a master storyteller.
5. Have a follow-on plan built into your conversation.  This means you needto have an objective, whether it be a follow-on date or simply to gether into bed.  You then need to direct the conversation towards this objective without seeming needly, clingy or pushy.
6. Use "trial closes", which are opinion asking questions that show you how close you are to getting your objective.  For instance, "Would you ever have sex with a man you just met?" would be a good example of a trial close question.  How she answers will tell you how she is thinking.  If she answers in the negative you can easily dis-engage from the question.  Remember, a trial closing question askes for an opinion, not a decision.  It is used to feel out the person you are talking to, not get her to act.

Thsse are some conversation basics.  As for what to talk about it largely depends both on what you are interested in and in what they are interested in.  You need to find out what the type of girl you are trying to attract likes to talk about and get informed about that subject.  Make it a habit to be well informed about several different issues so your covered.  You don't have to be an expert on everything, but you do have to have enough knowledge to be believably interested in what they are talking about.  In order to do this, make a plan to start learning about a buch of different subjects.

For more on how to talk to a woman, see "How to master talking to women."

Want to be more successful with women?  Here are some conversation resources, tools and information...

Conversation King - A simple 7-day course that will teach you to become a conversational master. 

Flirting Formula - Learn how to flirt with women. Women love to flirt and flirting is a vital skill to master if you want unmatched success with women.

Dating and Attraction Secrets - This free 10 part course will teach you how to approach beautiful women without fear, how to get dates with them and how to get them into bed.

How to Talk to Women - Without Getting Rejected! This is an excellent guide to developing confidence and an alpha male lifestyle